Monday, November 30, 2015

7 Tips on how to choose the Wedding Ring


1.WHAT MATERIAL IS RIGHT FOR ME?
Wedding rings comes in different metals, silver, gold, platinum, titanium, wood. A number of factors will determine the options available to you.

2. BUDGET
Silver, wood and titanium rings tend to be priced at the lower end of the spectrum. 9ct gold rings tend to come next and then 18ct gold, with 22ct gold and platinum rings fetching the highest prices.

3. DURABILITY
If you’re looking for a wedding ring to sit alongside an engagement ring, a practical choice would be to select a wedding ring in the same metal as your engagement ring. Some metals are softer than others, and wearing a softer metal next to a harder one can mean that the softer one is worn away over time.

4. COLOUR
If you decide you’d prefer a ring in a white metal, you can choose between silver, steel, titanium, 9ct or 18ct white gold, palladium or platinum. When it comes to white gold, you may decide to have your ring rhodium plated, which gives white gold a whiter appearance. If you like the colour of yellow gold, bear in mind that 9ct yellow gold is a paler colour than 18ct. And when it comes to rose gold, 9ct is a deeper colour than 18ct, which has a softer tone.

5. WHAT PROFILE AM I LOOKING FOR?
The term ‘profile’ describes the shape of the cross-section of a ring. A ring with an ‘oval’ profile will be slightly rounded on the inside and outside. A ring with a ‘rectangular’ section will have a flat inside and outside, with straight edges.

 6. WHAT WIDTH WOULD SUIT ME MOST?
Some hands are most flattered by a narrow ring, and others suit chunkier, wider styles. It’s only by trying on different rings that you’ll get a sense of what suits you best.

7. WHAT FINISH AM I LOOKING FOR?
From rings with a rough, hammered, organic finish, to those with a fine texture, to those that are highly polished. It all really depends on what you want or prefer, like they say, one man's meat is another man's poison.

8. WHERE CAN I GET AFFORDABLE AND NICE RINGS?

- Rings N Bands 
 32, Opebi Road, Ikeja Lagos.  
08132987938

- Riana Collection  
Shop B28, Adeniran Shopping Mall, Surulere Lagos.  
08128248910/ 08034815434

- Franchy Bridals  
2nd floor, 46 Balogun Street, Lagos Island.  
08033351658/ 08036645946

You can also try the gold markets at Ilorin, Kwara State; Tejuosho, Yaba; Oshodi Market.

Do you know any other place one can get rings? Please tell us in the comments. Thank you.



The Differences Between Engagement and Wedding Ring


‘I Do’ is Where All Dreams Come True

Love, romance, courtship and marriage… they are the beautiful words that entwined in it, utterly fascinating meaning as well as magic. That is the reason why there is so much of delicacy, thoughtfulness and evolved in taking each step onto the love connections so that everything becomes exquisite, worthwhile and memorable(especially the wedding ring) for the couple. This is needed so that they can share their loving times for years to come and their love, passion and commitment for each other grows with each passing day.

The journey of love indeed has a crowning period with the proposal to seeking the engagement and eventually marriage. All these stages are the milestones and to make it ever more special, there are “RINGS” – engagement ring and wedding ring to emblaze the event and add on to the shimmer, glitter and sparkle of ardent love.

We are going to explore the various facets of these rings and their origin, significance and meaning in the life of engaged and married people so that you can also get the inspiration to seek out the best option in rings and make way for a lovely nuptial stage of your life!
From where it ‘all’ begun!!



From ancient times people use rings for showing their commitment, especially the bonding between two people who are married. Interestingly, first ring that made for wedding was of grass. This was just the beginning, after that lot of things were changed in starting of 2nd century. It became usual for men to give their brides a gold ring at the time of engagement period but at the time of wedding, groom presents iron rings to their brides. It became symbol of lawful ceremony where the groom shows that he had ownership over his wife till she is alive.

This tradition is still in use and most of the people today wear both the engagement ring and wedding ring because it symbolizes ownership of another person whom they have selected to share their life with. As both rings are carrying different meanings and commitment to one’s partner, people today usually wear them together on the same finger at all times. Married couples have worn it in their hand to show their dedication towards their love-mate.

Engagement ring is used to propose a partner and show your love and devotion towards him/her. This indicates that you want to marry that person and will remain committed with him/her throughout life. Engagement ring is somehow very important for verifying that other person is also committed for life long relationship. People of today wear engagement ring as someone who have agreed to marry their love interest. It is also a way of telling surrounding people that they are committed with someone else and they are not available for any-other individual.

Wedding ring is also used for similar purposes but there is very little difference. By wearing a wedding ring, it represents that the wearer has been lawfully tied to husband or wife. These wedding rings or also commonly known as wedding band is used especially in wedding ceremony in front of friends, family and other people to declare their newly married status. In most Asean countries, wedding rings are put on during the Registration of Marriage ceremony as Asean couples will held their tradition wedding ceremony separately.
Perfect place for these rings on your hand as well as in your heart!

There were saying that ring is to be worn by man on the left ring finger and woman on the right ring finger. However, when it comes to wedding, all rings are to be worn on the ring finger of the left hand side. It is very prominent that the engagement ring is worn on the finger before marriage but it has become a common trend that people wear engagement or proposal ring with their wedding ring as well. In that case, the wedding ring is worn under these rings.

The tradition of wearing rings in the left ring finger comes into limelight with the belief that this finger is directly linked with the heart of the person. This indeed symbolizes the sacredness and the true feelings that are needed to initiate a beautiful relationship. Yes, the heart to heart connection can be achieved through these magical rings!
Stylish appearance, design and options:

When we give attention towards the differences of engagement and wedding rings, it can easily be found that rings that are created for engagement are more stylish, flashy and exquisite. There are many precious stones, gems; like diamond, emerald, ruby etc are embedded to make it really gaudy and beautiful. There are also different metals that are available for these rings like platinum, silver, gold or less expensive ones.

However, that is not the case of rings for wedding as they are sold in pair. Nowadays, there are wedding ring sets available which come in together with both engagement and wedding rings. It might contain wonderful art work on it and lots of gems as well. But mostly these rings are simple but still very attractive as all wise man says “simplicity is always beautiful and powerful”. That is the same case with wedding rings.

Besides that, now custom rings are available that can help you in opting for the unique love gestures for your beloved. You can create your own designs by placing order. Also, in case your lady loves to have the same ring for wedding as she had for engagement; for that you can seek the customized services.

wedding rings


In the Anglican Diocese of Newcastle; brides will not be asked to “submit” or “obey”.  Wedding services can be conducted in any of our parish churches:



Sarah Brett, Reverend Bill Green and Christopher Trevallian were married at St John’s Anglican Church, Dyers Crossing.



Do I need to be an Anglican? No but at least one person must be a baptised person. You will be married according to the Rites and Ceremonies of the Anglican Church and the officiant will be the Rector or Assistant of the Parish.

What do I need? You will need both full birth certificates for both bride and groom.  If married you’ve been married before, then a divorce or death certificate.  And at least one of you will need to have a baptism certificate.

When you meet the Priest? Together with the Priest you will fill in the Notice of Intended Marriage form, (this must be completed at least 30 days prior to your wedding) discuss the order of service and your family and friends participation as well as practical arrangements such as the rehearsal, photographers and videos etc.

Do we need to prepare? Yes there is an ONLINE marriage preparation course called PREPARE which you will both need to complete.  After completing this you will meet with Rector or Assistant to discuss the results.  No, it’s not an exam!

Are there fees? You pay a  fee of $600.00 for St James Bungwahl and $500.00 for all other centres which includes an organist fee, the priests fee and a donation to the maintenance of the church.

For more detailed information please download our Wedding Guide booklet which contains more details.

If you decide on one of our centres for your special day, please ring the Parish Office on 6555 4200 to make an inquiry or an appointment and check the date and centre is available.

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Missions

The Anglican Church in Forster supports a number of local and International Missions. Locally we support The Samaritan Foundation. In Australia we support the Anglican Board of Mission, Bush Church Aid, Church Army, CMS, the Bible Society and others.
Internationally we support Liz Burns in Tanzania, and Paul and Marleen Roche in Nepal.


Quotable Quotes

The Lord will judge the ends of the earth; he will give strength to his king, and exalt the power of his anointed. 1 Samuel 2:10